Bad Guy Versus Nice Man - Does Fascination Have Something To Do With Being A Bad Boy Compared To A Nice Guy?

Fine, we have all heard that myth - that "nice guys" lose out and the 'bad boys" attract women - but I don't think it is always true.

At least I don't think it has anything to do with being a bad boy vs a nice guy.

I feel there are other personality dimensions involved that possibly bad boys and nice guys have that are the defining qualities of attraction.

Bad boys tend to be less shy, but at the same time they are more confident in general than nice guys. I feel that it would be these qualities that are attracting a woman not the point that a guy is bad.

I personally do not use the "bad boy" method when attracting women, I am always a perfect gentleman. However, I am not an easy catch and women can tell that immediately when talking to me. I am a little reserved, I don't compliment women when I first meet them or tell them how lovely they are, and most women don't have a hint as to whether I am keen on them or just being polite.

That is what sets me beyond a "nice guy". Women see me as a perfect gentleman but haven't a clue if I like them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - like that. They are sick and tired of talking to men who fawn all over them.

Girls like guys who are appealing and unique. Attractive girls don't find gents who tell them how beautiful they are to be exceptional. But a guy who has an entertaining conversation with them without stating a word about their beauty verbally or non-verbally - now that is both interesting and unique to a beautiful girl.

Also keep in mind that women have different qualities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique changes from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking female may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how attractive she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a culture of perfect gentlemen, might very well choose a guy who talks a little bad and naughty to be interesting and unique. A woman who knows nothing but crude and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be a rare interesting and unique find.

You see irrespective of what you are like there is someone for you. But you have to determine who that someone would be and then try to build up a scenario on how you would meet women like that. So irrespective of if you are a bad guy or a nice guy, put yourself in a position where you are interesting and unique to the women you meet and you will be victorious.

One of the hardest things to learn in life is that regardless of what you are like there is definitely someone who is perfectly well-matched to you. Even if you are unexciting there are women who are completely compatible with that. Not every one wants to meet and hook up with the life of the party.

The problem is people who don't accept themselves for who they are, attempt to act differently and they are not being real, so they don't appeal to anyone. Now if you just admit yourself for who you are and act the way you basically are, you will notice that there are people who will embrace you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are boring or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will find a girl who will accept you for who you are.

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